I hear it all the time. "
One Day I'm going to get myself a Bigger Diamond" or "One Day I'll trade this little Diamond in for a big one!" It's always "
One Day" or "
Some Day"
Bah!
You know what? That "One Day" never comes! The truth is...
There is NO Ideal Day
Really! There is no day to finally say "Okay! It's time to Buy a Larger Diamond!"
Nothing is every going to change. Cash is not going to fall from the Money Tree so you can Buy the Diamond of your Dreams. (Okay, you could win the Lotto... But still...)
Ladies, it's time to face facts and reality. Make a stand! If that dream of a Bigger Diamond is ever going to happen, it's got to happen Today! NOW! It's not going to happen on its own. You have to make it happen. Take Action!
Actions = Results!
There really is no perfect time or opportunity for buying a Diamond. After all, a Diamond is a luxury item. It's not something that's necessary. (Well, for some Women it is!) Diamonds are something that you want, something that you desire, a wish! And wishes do come true! You just have to find a way to make it work.
Priority!
There will always be other things in your life that will take more priority: A new freezer, new tires on the car, paying off the Dentist, your kid's Education... The list goes on and on. "Buying a Diamond" is never going to make that list. It's sad, but it's true.
You'll end up putting it off your whole life and never do it.
So you know what?
I say find a way!
Shift things around. Sell other Jewelry that you don't wear. Get some cash flow. Have a Garage Sale! Get rid of those Ty Beanie Babies. Sell the Couch! Whatever you do, put Diamond at the top of your "Must Buy" list! (and also your Christmas List if you're lucky!)
It's Now or Never!
Seriously! Just do it!
Once you commit yourself, you'll always find a way to make it work. You always do.
Now, I'm not saying be careless and neglect things. Don't put off paying your bills, I don't want you to lose your home... Just cut back on some of the other things. Skip a Dinner and the Movies once a Month. Pass up that extra pair of Black Shoes. Take a Sack Lunch to work.
If you chip away at it, a little here and a little there, you should be able to afford your Diamond. Figure out what it will take to make a Diamond Payment and do it. It doesn't need to be crazy or extreme, but it should allow you to comfortably Upgrade your Ring into that Bigger Diamond that you've always dreamed of.
Everything in our lives gets Upgraded
It does. At some point in time our Clothes, our Cars, and our Homes. Diamond shouldn't be any different. They need to be upgraded. You can still keep your old Diamond for Sentimental reasons if you want! Keep the dream alive!
The Dream
Many Women dream of a One Carat Diamond. But I tell you, most would go absolutely insane for a 2.00 Carat Diamond. 2 Carats are amazing and HUGE! They take your breath away! They'll make even the grumpiest Women smile! Plus, it'll make one heck of a Stocking Stuffer! (Hint, Hint, Guys!)
So why not splurge? No one can spoil yourself like yourself. You want a Bigger Diamond? Buy one!
Talk to the Jeweler, see what options they have for Upgrading, Trading-In, Financing, or Layaway! You could be amazed!
Maybe it won't be as bad as you thought it would be? Maybe you'll be able to fit "Some Day" into "Today"? Wouldn't that be great? Who doesn't deserve a Larger Diamond?
I say go for it! Don't wait until you're 80 years old to enjoy it...
Do it Now! You won't regret it!
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