{"id":21421,"date":"2018-03-12T10:44:37","date_gmt":"2018-03-12T14:44:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=21421"},"modified":"2023-07-01T12:09:28","modified_gmt":"2023-07-01T16:09:28","slug":"bulky-rings-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/bulky-rings-hurt\/","title":{"rendered":"BULKY RINGS HURT"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Bulky-Thick-Rings-Hurt-Fingers.gif\" alt=\"Bulky Thick Rings Hurt Fingers\" title=\"Bulky Thick Rings Hurt Fingers\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-21422\" \/><\/div>\n<p>This is something that <strong>most people don&#8217;t think about<\/strong> when purchasing a wedding band&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>THE BULK!<\/h2>\n<p>\nSort of like <strong><em>The HULK<\/em><\/strong>&#8230; It&#8217;s the <strong>thickness <\/strong>of the ring, the band, the shank that&#8217;s the problem. Now I&#8217;m not talking about the width of the ring (i.e. <strong>2mm, 6mm, 10mm<\/strong>), I&#8217;m talking about how thick it is, <strong>the depth of the band<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nPeople try on rings, <strong>fall in love with them<\/strong>, take them home&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>And find out they HURT!<\/h2>\n<p>\nEspecially when <strong>someone shakes their hand<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Thick-High-Dome-Bulky-Rings-Hurt.jpg\" alt=\"Thick High Dome Bulky Rings Hurt\" title=\"Thick High Dome Bulky Rings Hurt\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Thick-High-Dome-Bulky-Rings-Hurt.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Thick-High-Dome-Bulky-Rings-Hurt-300x258.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many of these thick, bulky rings are <strong>comfort fit<\/strong>. Comfort fit is where the inside of the band is slightly curved, or domed, to make it feel more comfortable when wearing a ring (<strong>Regular fit bands are flat on the inside<\/strong> and often have a sharp edge that digs into your skin). Comfort fit bands are awesome and make up <strong>the majority of rings<\/strong> you see on the market.<\/p>\n<p>\nBut it&#8217;s not the inside curve that&#8217;s hurting, <strong>it&#8217;s the dome on the outside<\/strong>. When the band is <strong>high domed<\/strong>, or sits up really high on the sides, your fingers will push into this metal and <strong>it can really smart<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Compare a Regular Ring vs a High Dome Ring below<\/h2>\n<p>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Regular-Ring-vs-Thick-High-Dome-Comfort-Fit-Band.jpg\" alt=\"Regular Ring vs Thick High Dome Comfort Fit Band\" title=\"Regular Ring vs Thick High Dome Comfort Fit Band\" width=\"640\" height=\"550\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Regular-Ring-vs-Thick-High-Dome-Comfort-Fit-Band.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Regular-Ring-vs-Thick-High-Dome-Comfort-Fit-Band-300x258.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\nThe high dome is <strong>a nice thick ring<\/strong>. The great thing about such a heavy piece is that it&#8217;s <strong>virtually indestructible<\/strong>. It&#8217;ll last forever. All it needs is a slight polish every now and then and it can <strong>withstand a tornado<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>YEAH!<\/h2>\n<p>\nMany guys and gals can wear a thick ring and <strong>have no problems with them<\/strong>. Maybe they have more padding on the sides of their fingers, maybe their fingers have <strong>more of a gap <\/strong>between them, maybe it just feels fine and doesn&#8217;t bother them in the least.<\/p>\n<p><h2>But others; OUCH!<\/h2>\n<p>\nYou pick something up, you shake hands, the skin of your fingers gets squished together and <strong>the ring pushes up against your bones<\/strong>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nI used to have a DM that would shake my hand so hard <strong>it would make me yelp<\/strong> (those vise-grip hand shakers). It got to the point where I removed my ring before I shook his hand. <strong>Silly, but effective<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>So is there a Solution?<\/h2>\n<p>\nIs there a way to <strong>make a bulky ring <em>less<\/em> bulky?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>Possibly!<\/h2>\n<p>\nA Jeweler <strong>may be able to reduce some of that bulk<\/strong> on the sides of the ring&#8230; But only if it&#8217;s plain and solid. They can gently file and polish away some of the ring&#8230; But if the ring has a <strong>design<\/strong> (etched pattern), <strong>prongs<\/strong>, <strong>gemstones<\/strong>, or anything on the sides of the ring, <strong>there&#8217;s no way to thin it down<\/strong>. That&#8217;s the way it was made, and <strong>that&#8217;s the way it will stay<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>\nSure they might be able to file some metal away <strong>on the inside<\/strong> of the band, but that generally doesn&#8217;t affect the overall thickness, or <strong>dome on the outside<\/strong>, nor how it will feel on the hand.<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd thinning down the ring <strong>could harm the integrity<\/strong>, durability, and support of the ring. In other words, <strong>it could ruin or weaken it!<\/strong> And it could even <strong>expose pits or cavities<\/strong> in the metal. And those don&#8217;t look good, and <strong>can&#8217;t be fixed, either<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>So the only option is&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>\nTo either <strong>speak with a jeweler<\/strong> about the thickness of the ring, or more than likely, <strong>look at different rings<\/strong> that feel better on your fingers. They might be able to <strong>reset your stones<\/strong> into a new mounting, or <strong>custom design<\/strong> something similar that won&#8217;t crack your bones.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Because BULK SMARTS!<\/h2>\n<p>\nSo the next time you&#8217;re <strong>trying on wedding rings<\/strong>, anniversary bands, bridal rings, <strong>eternity bands<\/strong>, even engagement rings, <strong>smush your fingers together<\/strong> and see how the ring feels on the sides of your fingers. If it&#8217;s thick and bulky, <strong>you may want to pass on that style<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>This is something that most people don&#8217;t think about when purchasing a wedding band&#8230; THE BULK! Sort of like The HULK&#8230; It&#8217;s the thickness of the ring, the band, the shank that&#8217;s the problem. 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