{"id":4524,"date":"2011-07-27T10:42:02","date_gmt":"2011-07-27T14:42:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=4524"},"modified":"2018-08-16T17:28:21","modified_gmt":"2018-08-16T21:28:21","slug":"2-months-salary-for-an-engagement-ring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/2-months-salary-for-an-engagement-ring\/","title":{"rendered":"2 MONTHS SALARY FOR AN ENGAGEMENT RING?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2-Months-Salary-Diamond-Engagement-Ring.gif\" alt=\"2 Months Salary Diamond Engagement Ring\" title=\"2 Months Salary Diamond Engagement Ring\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-4526\" \/><\/div>\n<p>Jewelry stores always say you need to <strong>spend at least 2 month&#8217;s salary<\/strong> on a diamond engagement ring. <\/p>\n<p>\nThat&#8217;s the <strong>guidelines <\/strong>they give you and so that&#8217;s what most guys will probably aim for&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><h2>But is this just?<\/h2>\n<p>\nGuys have <strong>no idea how much money to spend<\/strong> on an engagement ring. All they know initially is that <strong>they have to buy one<\/strong>, and that <strong>it&#8217;s going to be expensive<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>But 2 month&#8217;s salary?<\/strong> That seems high&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Let&#8217;s find out&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>The average income<\/h2>\n<p>\nAccording to <strong>Ask.com<\/strong>, the median income (figures out better than the average income) across America is <strong>$27,041<\/strong> per individual (at the time of this post). That works out to roughly <strong>$2,253<\/strong> a month.<\/p>\n<p><h2>$2,253 x 2 months = $4,506<\/h2>\n<p>\nSo if $4,506 is average for 2 months salary, is that what most people are spending on a diamond?<\/p>\n<p>\nIn my experience, I&#8217;d have to say <strong>NO! That&#8217;s a little high.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2-Month-Salary-Diamond-Guidelines.jpg\" alt=\"2 Month Salary Diamond Engagement Ring Guidelines\" title=\"2 Month Salary Diamond Engagement Ring Guidelines\" width=\"640\" height=\"400\"><\/p>\n<p><h2>The average diamond ring sale&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>\nThe average diamond ring sale for <strong>new brides-to-be<\/strong>, is probably closer to <strong>$3,000<\/strong>, if not a little less (<strong>$2,500<\/strong>). But, interestingly enough, the most common diamond carat weight sold on the market is just <strong>3\/8 carat weight<\/strong> (a little bit bigger than 1\/3 CT). A 3\/8 carat (38 point) diamond will usually sell for around $999 &#8211; $2,000 (depending on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/diamond-cut\/\">cut<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/diamond-color\/\">color<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/diamond-clarity\/\">clarity<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/diamond-carat-weight\/\">carat weight<\/a>). <\/p>\n<p>\nAs you can see, that is pretty <strong>shy of the 2 month mark<\/strong>.  <\/p>\n<p>\nSo then where does this average price increase come from that we&#8217;ve been seeing? <strong>Well, it stems from an educated public<\/strong>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>Diamond education!<\/h2>\n<p>\nPeople know by now to look closer at diamonds and quality. They know that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/the-4-cs-of-diamonds\/\">the 4C&#8217;s<\/a> are important and are taking the time to learn before they shop, compare and buy. Shows like <strong>20\/20<\/strong> have done a great job with opening people&#8217;s eyes. This is awesome for everyone. The customer gets a better diamond and the jeweler gets <strong>a bigger sale<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>See how that works?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nNo matter what, 2 month&#8217;s salary is <strong>pushing the envelope a bit<\/strong>. I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s just a clever (smart) <strong>marketing ploy<\/strong> that was started by who-knows-who (DeBeers?) But it does work. Guys are spending a little bit more&#8230; But then again, I&#8217;m also sure this is driven by <strong>what women want<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>What do women want?<\/h2>\n<p>\nWomen generally don&#8217;t want a small diamond (like the <strong>3\/8 carat<\/strong>). They want <strong>a BIG carat weight!<\/strong> The bigger the better. <\/p>\n<p>\n3\/8 is small and <strong>it will look small on her fingers<\/strong>. One carat (or closer to it) is the place to be. :)<\/p>\n<p><h2>Should YOU spend more money?<\/h2>\n<p>\nSure! <strong>Why not?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nShe&#8217;s going to wear this ring <strong>every single day<\/strong> for the rest of her life. What else could you buy or wear that will still look <strong>brand new in 80 years<\/strong> from now? <strong>Nothing!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nDiamonds are beautiful, stunning and shine like a million stars in the sky. They are highly durable (<strong>unless you accidentally chip them<\/strong>). They will never wear down. You&#8217;ll be able to pass this on for generations to come.<\/p>\n<p>\nPlus, it will constantly remind you of your <strong>dedication, loyalty and commitment<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Diamonds are worth every penny!<\/h2>\n<p>\nYou couldn&#8217;t put that kind of money into any other inanimate object and have it last as long or look as good.<\/p>\n<p>\nThink about it, it will never tarnish, dull, scratch, wear down, rust, corrode, stain or rub away&#8230; <strong>A diamond IS forever!!!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>That&#8217;s why diamonds are so expensive&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>\nThey are the ultimate gemstone to cherish and treasure. They will last and endure just as long as you do. What better gift to give your fiance than <strong>the gift of everlasting love and beauty?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>With this ring I thee wed&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nIt has to be perfect doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p><h2>Spend more&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>\nI always say, &#8220;<strong>spend more!<\/strong>&#8221; If you&#8217;re thinking about spending $2,000 on a diamond engagement ring, spend <strong>$3,000<\/strong> instead.<\/p>\n<p>\nA couple hundred dollars more <strong>won&#8217;t matter much<\/strong> in the long run (when it comes to making <strong>payments<\/strong>). But it makes a huge difference on her finger.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe last thing you ever want to do <strong>is regret it<\/strong>. If you get her a small diamond, she&#8217;ll know it. <strong>Her face won&#8217;t lie<\/strong>. You&#8217;ll see the <strong>disappointment <\/strong>in her eyes&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nBigger stones really do get bigger reactions, bigger smiles and bigger hugs.<\/p>\n<p>\nI&#8217;m not saying <strong>go ape wild<\/strong> (or go <strong>broke<\/strong>). I&#8217;m just saying move up to the next <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/diamond-carat-weight\/\">carat weight<\/a>, that&#8217;s all. Instead of buying her 1\/3 carat, buy her 1\/2 carat. Instead of 3\/4 carat, <strong>swing for the 1.00 carat<\/strong>. But do remember one thing: <strong>Don&#8217;t skimp on quality<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nClarity and color are very important and <strong>shouldn&#8217;t be overlooked<\/strong>. I recommend G-H or higher in color and SI1 or higher in clarity (<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.75&#038;CaratTo=30&#038;Color=H,G,F,E,D&#038;Clarity=SI1,VS2,VS1,VVS2,VVS1,IF,FL&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">like in these diamonds here<\/a>). You only get one chance to buy this ring, <strong>better make it a good one<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe last thing you ever want to say is &#8220;<strong>I should have gotten her the bigger diamond<\/strong>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p><h2>What will 2 month&#8217;s salary get you?<\/h2>\n<p>\nLet&#8217;s take a look at what 2 month&#8217;s salary (<strong>$2,500 &#8211; $3,000<\/strong>) will get you (<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.75&#038;CaratTo=30&#038;Color=H,G,F,E,D&#038;Clarity=SI1,VS2,VS1,VVS2,VVS1,IF,FL&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=2500&#038;PriceTo=3000&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=PriceSliderTop&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">view them all here<\/a>). <strong>I think you&#8217;ll be surprised<\/strong>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\n$3,000 could get you some awesome, awesome diamonds. Diamonds that are <strong>WAY above average<\/strong> in both cut, color, clarity and carat weight&#8230; Well, I should say, if you buy your diamond from the right place. It&#8217;s a fact, some jewelry stores overcharge you and you could get something much bigger if you know where to look and shop. I say, <strong>Shop online!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/?a_aid=JSDG\">James Allen<\/a> is probably one of <strong>the best places<\/strong> to buy a diamond online. They are the only jeweler to show you the actual diamond you&#8217;re buying under <strong>20x magnification<\/strong> (priceless for peace of mind) <strong>BEFORE <\/strong>you buy it. No other online jeweler does that. <\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.75&#038;CaratTo=30&#038;Color=H,G,F,E,D&#038;Clarity=SI1,VS2,VS1,VVS2,VVS1,IF,FL&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=2500&#038;PriceTo=3000&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=PriceSliderTop&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/James-Allen-Website.jpg\" alt=\"James Allen Diamond Search\" title=\"James Allen Diamond Search\" width=\"640\" height=\"400\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\nPlus James Allen gives you a no questions asked <strong>100% full refund<\/strong> if you&#8217;re not completely satisfied. You can&#8217;t beat them or their prices. Just compare them to any jewelry store in the mall&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><h2>Big difference!<\/h2>\n<p>\nTake a look at some of the diamonds and rings I&#8217;ve found doing an extensive search on James Allen (You can search by price, carat weight, or keep adding in filters to narrow the search down).<\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.7&#038;CaratTo=30&#038;Color=H&#038;Clarity=VS2&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=2500&#038;PriceTo=3000&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.70 CT, VS2, H, ideal cut diamond price: $2,500<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.6&#038;CaratTo=30&#038;Color=E&#038;Clarity=VS1&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=2500&#038;PriceTo=3000&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.60 CT, VS1, E, excellent cut diamond price: $2,500<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S. VS1, E is my favorite color and clarity!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>3 Stone diamond ring price<\/h2>\n<p>\nIf you buy a wedding set, or a ring with more than one stone, you can get <strong>a BIG LOOK<\/strong> for a much less price. Use these mountings:<\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/engagement-rings\/three-stone\/?a_aid=JSDG\">Three stone diamond engagement ring: $1,500<\/a><\/p>\n<p>With this center solitaire:<\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/all-diamonds\/?CaratFrom=0.6&#038;CaratTo=1.5&#038;Color=G,F,E,D&#038;Clarity=VS2,VS1,VVS2,VVS1,IF,FL&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=200&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom?a_aid=JSDG\">.60 CT, VS1, F, princess cut diamond price: $1,500<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Those 2 combined would be <strong>$3,000!<\/strong> :)<\/p>\n<p><h2>So what do you think?<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong>Have I justified spending 2 month&#8217;s salary?<\/strong> I think so. It&#8217;s not a bad guideline and considering how much you would spend on a car that will be worthless in 10 years&#8230; I&#8217;d say the money for a diamond <strong>is well spent<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nDo realize that the 2 month&#8217;s salary in this post may be different than your 2 month&#8217;s salary. But <strong>for a grand or two<\/strong>, you can still get some unbelievable deals. Check out these diamond solitaires that will <strong>knock your socks off<\/strong>&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.5&#038;CaratTo=1.49&#038;Color=D&#038;Clarity=VVS2&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=200&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=None,Negligible&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.50 CT, VVS2, D, excellent cut diamond prices: $1,900<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.7&#038;CaratTo=1.49&#038;Color=G&#038;Clarity=SI1&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=200&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=None,Negligible&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.70 CT, SI1, G, excellent cut diamond prices: $2,400<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.7&#038;CaratTo=1.49&#038;Color=H&#038;Clarity=VS2&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=200&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=None,Negligible&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.70 CT, VS2, H, excellent cut diamond prices: $2,600<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/loose-diamonds\/round-cut\/?CaratFrom=0.5&#038;CaratTo=1.49&#038;Color=D&#038;Clarity=VVS2&#038;Cut=Ideal,Excellent,TrueHearts&#038;PriceFrom=200&#038;PriceTo=&#038;ViewsOptions=Images&#038;advancedParameter=CaratSliderBottom&#038;showAdvanced=show&#038;Shape=round&#038;Polish=EX,ID&#038;Symmetry=EX,ID&#038;Lab=&#038;Flour=None,Negligible&#038;DepthFrom=45&#038;DepthTo=80&#038;TableFrom=40&#038;TableTo=83?a_aid=JSDG\">.56 CT, VVS2, D, excellent cut diamond prices: $1,900<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(prices good at the time of this post)<\/p>\n<p>\nSo whether it be $2,000 or <strong>$10,000<\/strong>, do what feels <strong>comfortable<\/strong>. Spend a little bit more now so you won&#8217;t regret it later. And buy from a store that gives you the best deal for the best quality.<\/p>\n<p>\nP.S. If you use &#8220;<strong>RINGSUM<\/strong>&#8221; at checkout you&#8217;ll save an additional <strong>10% off<\/strong> your ring mounting price from <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/?a_aid=JSDG\">James Allen<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>\nSee, that just <strong>saved you more money<\/strong>&#8230; Makes you want to buy a bigger stone, eh? :)<\/p>\n<p>\nLet me know what you end up buying and if you think 2 month&#8217;s salary is fine, or just way out of line.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>I&#8217;d love to hear from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Jewelry stores always say you need to spend at least 2 month&#8217;s salary on a diamond engagement ring. That&#8217;s the guidelines they give you and so that&#8217;s what most guys will probably aim for&#8230; But <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/2-months-salary-for-an-engagement-ring\/\" title=\"2 MONTHS SALARY FOR AN ENGAGEMENT RING?\">[Read More&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4526,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,3,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4524","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diamond-guide","category-diamonds","category-engagement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4524"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4524"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4524\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}