{"id":6941,"date":"2018-10-18T07:00:35","date_gmt":"2018-10-18T11:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=6941"},"modified":"2018-10-18T11:06:23","modified_gmt":"2018-10-18T15:06:23","slug":"addicted-to-jewelry-diamonds-gold","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/addicted-to-jewelry-diamonds-gold\/","title":{"rendered":"ADDICTED TO JEWELRY, DIAMONDS &#038; GOLD"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Addicted-To-Jewelry.gif\" alt=\"Addicted To Jewelry\" title=\"Addicted To Jewelry\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-6942\" \/><\/div>\n<p>I have customers that come into the store <strong>every single week<\/strong> to buy new jewelry.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>No lie.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>(You know who you are.)<\/h2>\n<p>\nThese ladies (I&#8217;ve never seen <strong>a man with jewelry addiction<\/strong>, but that&#8217;s not to say it doesn&#8217;t exist) spend hundreds and thousands of dollars a month on anything from diamond earrings to tennis bracelets to gemstone jewelry to gold chains, platinum pendants and more.<\/p>\n<p><h2>&#8220;I want to charge it!&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>\nJewelry addicts <strong>run up their charge accounts<\/strong>, they put diamonds in layaway, they order designer name brands, they custom design rings, they put huge dazzling earring studs on hold&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nThey&#8217;re always looking for <strong>that next big sparkling diamond<\/strong> and gemstone.<\/p>\n<p>\nWhile I have no problems waiting on customers like this, I also <strong>feel helpless and sorry<\/strong> for them at the same time. Spending this much week after week adds up to an insane amount of debt.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Buy and return:<\/h2>\n<p>\nThese same compulsive people buy jewelry, <strong>then return it the next week<\/strong>. Or they trade it in a couple months later on something bigger and better. It&#8217;s a <strong>sickness <\/strong>that can&#8217;t be stopped.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>So what can you do if you&#8217;re this type of person? <\/strong>Is there a way to keep your <strong>money in your pocket?<\/strong> Is there a way to be happy with the jewelry you already have?<\/p>\n<p><h2>Will you ever be satisfied?<\/h2>\n<p>\nThere is no <strong>cut and dry<\/strong> answer here.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Addictions are destructive and crippling.<\/h2>\n<p>\nJewelry addiction can <strong>quickly drain your bank account<\/strong>. It can consume your earnings and put you thousands of dollars in debt. And the sad thing is, you still will never fulfill that desire.<\/p>\n<p><h2>You will always want more.<\/h2>\n<p>\nIs there a light at the end of the <strong>jewelry checkout?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nJewelry addiction will always leave you empty inside&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nOnce you wear a 2.00 carat diamond on your finger, everything else looks <strong>small by comparison<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Spending habits:<\/h2>\n<p>\nJewelry addicts can have many different reasons for their <strong>spending habits<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nThey could want the envy of their girlfriends. Jewelry could be used to <strong>compensate <\/strong>for other areas in their lives that are lacking.<\/p>\n<p>\nIt could be a <strong>failed marriage<\/strong>, a stressful job, <strong>low self-esteem<\/strong>, a childhood tragedy, a middle aged crisis or maybe just an <strong>increase in weight<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Bigger problems:<\/h2>\n<p>\nUsually these addictions are just signs of a bigger problem. It gets worse when <strong>interest charges add up<\/strong>. A $500 diamond necklace suddenly turns into a $1500 weight with credit card charges.<\/p>\n<p><h2>But there is hope:<\/h2>\n<p>\nThere is a light at the end of the tunnel&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nIt starts with <strong>letting go of the jewelry that you don&#8217;t wear anymore<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nSell it. <strong>Return it<\/strong>. Do whatever you can to <strong>chop away at that bill<\/strong>. Keep only the most important pieces of jewelry. A ring, a bracelet, a pendant, a watch, some earrings.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Give up everything else!<\/h2>\n<p>\nThe only way to get your life and money back is to <strong>get a grip on it<\/strong>. It&#8217;s time to face the facts and sacrifice. Now I&#8217;m not saying give up purchasing. I&#8217;m not saying don&#8217;t buy jewelry anymore. What I&#8217;m saying is <strong>slim it down<\/strong>, change your buying habits.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Buy better:<\/h2>\n<p>\nBuy white gold instead of platinum. Buy semi-precious gemstones (Amethyst, Topaz, Citrine, Peridot) instead of precious (expensive) gems (Emeralds, Rubies and Sapphires).<\/p>\n<p>\nPurchase <a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2RZl8Xh\">cubic zirconia jewelry<\/a> instead of diamonds.<\/p>\n<p>\nCZ&#8217;s look similar, <strong>but are a fraction of the price<\/strong>. And if you really want to turn things around, <strong>purchase sterling silver. <\/strong>Silver is inexpensive and it&#8217;ll fill that must-buy-jewelry need.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Cut back and get control:<\/h2>\n<p>Get the jewelry bills paid off.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Be smart in your choices.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nAnd above all, <strong>don&#8217;t impulse buy<\/strong>. Those snap decisions, no matter what the deal is, can really hurt when you have to <strong>pay the price.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2pYfDLN\">Take a peek at these inexpensive jewelry deals here at Amazon!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>I have customers that come into the store every single week to buy new jewelry. No lie. (You know who you are.) 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