{"id":7452,"date":"2022-12-03T10:00:08","date_gmt":"2022-12-03T15:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=7452"},"modified":"2022-12-03T13:40:52","modified_gmt":"2022-12-03T18:40:52","slug":"get-her-ring-size-without-her-knowing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/get-her-ring-size-without-her-knowing\/","title":{"rendered":"GET HER RING SIZE WITHOUT HER KNOWING"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Ring-Size.gif\" alt=\"Get Her Ring Size Without Her Knowing\" title=\"Get Her Ring Size Without Her Knowing\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-7453\" \/><\/div>\n<p>So you want to <strong>surprise her<\/strong> and not let her know you need her ring size?<\/p>\n<p>\nYou want to be sly about it and get her to tell you, but you don&#8217;t want to <strong>plant any seeds<\/strong> about the big engagement or <strong>grand proposal<\/strong> you have planned?<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>So how do you get her engagement ring size without her knowing?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>You&#8217;re not the only one&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>\nMany guys have this dilemma, they want to get the <strong>correct finger size for the engagement ring<\/strong>, but don&#8217;t want to ruin the surprise. <strong>It&#8217;s a tricky situation<\/strong>. I mean when you give it to her you want the ring to fit don&#8217;t you? So you&#8217;re stuck with either asking her or what I like to say, <strong>fudging it!<\/strong> And bear in mind&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>Fudging it is NOT really guessing!<\/h2>\n<p>\nThere is No absolute perfect way to do this little task secretly. But there are ways around it.<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd also remember one <strong>very important thing:<\/strong> the engagement ring is <strong>the ring finger on the LEFT hand!<\/strong> (So if you take her hands in yours, it&#8217;s your right side!)<\/p>\n<p>\nYou&#8217;d be surprised how many people don&#8217;t know which is the correct hand for the engagement and wedding rings. I bring that up while I&#8217;m thinking about it, because there&#8217;s another huge factor, the ring finger of the left hand <strong>is not the same size <\/strong>as the ring finger of her right hand!<\/p>\n<p><h2>WHAT?<\/h2>\n<p>\nYES! It&#8217;s true&#8230; Human hands are different sizes.<\/p>\n<p><h2>How odd!<\/h2>\n<p>\nEverybody&#8217;s hands are not equally sized because of <strong>dominance<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nYour dominant hand will usually always be about a <strong>half size bigger<\/strong> than the other.<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd no jokes here about <strong>why one hand is bigger than the other<\/strong>&#8230; it&#8217;s just a fact&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\nSo be careful you&#8217;re getting the correct size of the correct finger. It would be a shame to go through all this trouble and still <strong>get it wrong!<\/strong> So how do you get that ring size without <strong>planting any suspicions&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>&#8220;What are you up to?&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>\nThere are lots of ways around this. First off, forget the old &#8220;<strong>try this ring on, I just want to see how it looks on your finger!<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>\nThose tactics are old and worn and <strong>will NOT work!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nPlus it will immediately plant seeds of <strong>marching down the aisle!<\/strong> Don&#8217;t do it!<\/p>\n<p><h2>I repeat: Don&#8217;t do it!<\/h2>\n<p>\nYou may think that you&#8217;re slick, but I assure you&#8230;<strong>she&#8217;s slicker!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nSo the best way to get her finger size without ruining the surprise is this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>Ask her best friends!<\/h2>\n<p>\nAsk her friends and if that doesn&#8217;t work, <strong>ask her mother!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>Quietly ASK!<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong>BUT<\/strong>, you&#8217;ve got to get them to swear to total confidentiality (and you have to <strong>trust them <\/strong>to do this).<\/p>\n<p>\nOnce they know it&#8217;s an engagement ring and a proposal is coming, they&#8217;ll <strong>zip their lips<\/strong> quicker than you can say &#8220;<strong>zip it!<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>\nNo doubt that they have gone into jewelry stores in the past just to <strong>browse the wedding rings<\/strong>, engagement rings and solitaires. I&#8217;ve seen it happen daily. Women <em>just have to look<\/em>. <strong>It&#8217;s built in.<\/strong> Girl code. They just do it.<\/p>\n<p><h2>&#8220;I just want to try one on!&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>\nWoman go into jewelers trying on countless engagement rings and store things <strong>into memory<\/strong>, like what size her best friend&#8217;s ring finger is&#8230; <strong>I&#8217;m Serious<\/strong>. Women do this. If you ask her best friend I&#8217;m sure, under normal circumstances, she&#8217;ll be able to tell you <strong>without batting an eyelash<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>They do that just in case!<\/h2>\n<p>\nThey&#8217;ve been looking forward to this <strong>all their lives <\/strong>and women are always prepared for anything.<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd in fact, even under the slight chance that her best friend or mother doesn&#8217;t know the exact size, they are better off than anyone<strong> at guessing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nPlus women always try on each others rings. They do these things. <strong>They know!<\/strong> Trust me.<\/p>\n<p><h2>She wants to be surprised!<\/h2>\n<p>\nYou&#8217;ll get her ring size, she&#8217;ll be surprised and you both will <strong>live happily ever after (<\/strong>Crossing my fingers on this one). And believe me, <strong>women do LOVE surprises!<\/strong> Don&#8217;t ruin it for them.<\/p>\n<p>\nSome guys still want to try the old trick of <strong>tying a string around her finger<\/strong> while she sleeps. Give it up. That string really won&#8217;t help a jeweler out when it comes to fitting a metal band. Plus, <strong>she&#8217;ll probably wake up<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\nAnd there&#8217;s more important things you should know about her finger size&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\n&#8230;Most jewelers will size your brand new engagement ring <strong>at no charge ONCE!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Sounds good, eh?<\/h2>\n<p>\nBut what that also means is this, if they have to size it again&#8230; <strong>They&#8217;re charging you!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nSo if you guess her ring size <strong>wrong<\/strong>, it will cost you. And Depending on the type of metal selected, it could be anywhere from <strong>$25.00 to $200 more.<\/strong> Keep that in mind!<\/p>\n<p><h2>My best advice is this:<\/h2>\n<p>\nIf you can&#8217;t get her ring size through her <strong>closest female confidants<\/strong>, then <em>don&#8217;t do it at all<\/em>. I&#8217;m not saying don&#8217;t get the ring, I&#8217;m saying <strong>don&#8217;t get it sized!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nMost rings come in an average women&#8217;s ring size around <strong>6 &#8211; 7.<\/strong> That&#8217;s average, and most women will usually be able to fit that somewhere on their hands. If it doesn&#8217;t fit, <strong>they&#8217;ll force it<\/strong>! Women have a great natural ability to fit a ring and wear it until they&#8217;re able to get it sized properly.<\/p>\n<p><h2>&#8220;It&#8217;ll fit for now!&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>\nPlus the fact that if you keep sizing and resizing a ring <strong>it breaks down the ring&#8217;s integrity and durability!<\/strong> So size it once, that&#8217;s the best.<\/p>\n<p>\nShe&#8217;ll be surprised&#8230; but she&#8217;ll be even more surprised if her finger size is a 4 and you <strong>&#8220;accidentally&#8221; get her a 14!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>Yep, that&#8217;s a BIG surprise!<\/h2>\n<p>\nYou may get remarks about her being <strong>overweight<\/strong>&#8230; So beware of that backfire.<\/p>\n<p>\nI mean after all, you do want her to say &#8220;<strong>YES!<\/strong>&#8220;, don&#8217;t you? So when you do it, <em>do it right<\/em>. And if you do happen to mess things up, then there&#8217;s only one thing to do&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>Blame it on her fat sister!<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>So you want to surprise her and not let her know you need her ring size? 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