{"id":8199,"date":"2019-01-13T06:00:24","date_gmt":"2019-01-13T11:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=8199"},"modified":"2023-07-01T13:25:18","modified_gmt":"2023-07-01T17:25:18","slug":"how-wide-should-your-wedding-band-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/how-wide-should-your-wedding-band-be\/","title":{"rendered":"HOW WIDE SHOULD YOUR WEDDING BAND BE?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Wedding-Band-Widths.gif\" alt=\"How Wide Should Your Wedding Band Be?\" title=\"How Wide Should Your Wedding Band Be?\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-8201\" \/><\/div>\n<p>Once you get your engagement ring and <strong>it&#8217;s time to shop for the wedding ring<\/strong>, there&#8217;s always one great question that everyone wants to know&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>How wide?<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong>How wide should your wedding band be?<\/strong>&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\nIs there a recommended width? <\/p>\n<p>\nWell, the funny thing is, the width of your wedding band is all <strong>based upon you<\/strong> of course. That is, your own personal preference and pocketbook control most of the determining factors involved. <\/p>\n<p><h2>You have to be happy with it.<\/h2>\n<p>When it all comes down to it,<strong> you are the only one who has to be happy with your choice<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>\nYou are the only one who will wear that wedding band for the rest of your life. So <strong>does it really matter what anyone else thinks?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some people prefer really skinny bands (1.5mm &#8211; <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2VS0GcP\">like these thin bands here<\/a>), others prefer a monster of a band (12mm or more &#8211; <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2M6AEhI\">like these big rings here<\/a>). <\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Which one is the correct purchase?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>How wide is too wide?<\/h2>\n<p>\nI always say that <strong>if you can&#8217;t bend your finger anymore<\/strong>, or if it feels uncomfortable on, then it&#8217;s <strong>too wide.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>\nSo let&#8217;s look at the average ring widths that most people get&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><h2>Average ring sizes:<\/h2>\n<p><strong>The average men&#8217;s wedding band is 5 &#8211; 7mm wide<\/strong> (keep in mind, I&#8217;m not talking about the thickness of the ring, like how domed it is, just how wide it is across the finger &#8211; <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2SQVWCz\">like these wedding rings here<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>The average lady&#8217;s band is 2 &#8211; 4mm<\/strong>, like these rings here.<\/p>\n<p>\nI will say that most <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2M9AHcl\">men prefer comfort-fit bands<\/a>, which are a heavier thickness and domed, while the <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2Cgt9Ac\">ladies prefer a thinner, flatter band<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If a man wears a ring skinnier than 5mm wide, it tends to look a little wimpy or feminine on his finger. So unless he&#8217;s got really thin, bony fingers, <strong>I would suggest a 6mm<\/strong>, 7mm, or 8mm. Those tend to look more balanced and proportional on most men&#8217;s hands.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Ladies are different&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>With lady&#8217;s wedding rings, you get into a whole different conversation. <\/p>\n<p>\nThat&#8217;s because we&#8217;re dealing with the engagement ring of course.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>The best advice I can give is to match the wedding ring to the engagement ring<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Match the rings:<\/h2>\n<p>Match the width and the style of the engagement ring and the wedding band should look great.<\/p>\n<p>\nFor example, if your engagement ring is a solitaire (you know, the <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jamesallen.com\/engagement-rings\/solitaire\/?a_aid=JSDG\">tiffany-style standard 2mm wide band<\/a>), the wedding band that looks best is usually a <strong>2mm Band<\/strong> (<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2Cgtjri\">see here<\/a>). <\/p>\n<p>\nYou can put wider rings up against a solitaire, like the 4mm gold band or a wedding band (pictured below), but you have to be careful that you <strong>don&#8217;t take away from the look of your engagement ring<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><h2>You really want the focus to be on your diamond.<\/h2>\n<p>\nPlus, you want your rings to feel good on your fingers as well. If your bands are too wide or bulky, <strong>it could hurt your fingers<\/strong> when you close them or shake hands.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Different-Wedding-Band-Widths.jpg\" alt=\"Different types of Wedding Bands!\" title=\"Different types of Wedding Bands!\" width=\"502\" height=\"288\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Different-Wedding-Band-Widths.jpg 502w, https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Different-Wedding-Band-Widths-300x172.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\nIf your engagement ring is a channel set band, then I would duplicate that band and make a <strong>matching wedding band<\/strong> (see matching band above). I always strive to match the wedding and engagement rings so they look similar, and fit flush up against each other.<\/p>\n<p><h2>Custom designs?<\/h2>\n<p>\nIf you have an engagement ring that has an <strong>unusual design or shape<\/strong>, then you can have a plain gold band custom made to fit the contours of your ring (see thick contour band above). <\/p>\n<p>\nThe contour band shown is about 2.5mm wide, which in my opinion is too wide and <strong>takes away from the actual ring<\/strong>. I usually suggest to only go about 1mm &#8211; 1.5mm wide for contour bands. <\/p>\n<p>\nWhen you put a narrow band up against your engagement ring,<strong> they usually call it a shadow band<\/strong> (see picture above). <strong>Shadow bands are the best types of bands to have made when you have a unique and shapely engagement ring<\/strong> (it gets almost impossible to find a wedding band already made to fit these types of rings anyway).<\/p>\n<p><h2>What about wider bands?<\/h2>\n<p>\nIf you have a wider engagement ring, like the <strong>cathedral mounting<\/strong> pictured above, then I would advise using a 2mm gold band, or a <strong>diamond band<\/strong> like the one shown in the picture with the princess cut solitaire (listed as diamond band).<\/p>\n<p><h2>The best rule of thumb to use is this:<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong> Keep it simple.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nDon&#8217;t take away from the beauty of your diamond engagement ring. Solitaire rings will pretty much look good up against anything that will <strong>fit flat and flush<\/strong> to it. <\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>I would advise<\/strong> keeping away from a diamond band that has prongs and sits up high though. These usually detract from the solitaire, get caught on things, and tend to make it look gaudy.<\/p>\n<p>So whether it be a 2mm or 14mm, it all comes down to preference and what <strong>looks good<\/strong> and <strong>feels good<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>\nI mean really, <strong>who&#8217;s to tell you that it&#8217;s right or wrong?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nDo what makes you happy, and enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Once you get your engagement ring and it&#8217;s time to shop for the wedding ring, there&#8217;s always one great question that everyone wants to know&#8230; How wide? 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