{"id":8332,"date":"2023-09-21T11:00:59","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T15:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/?p=8332"},"modified":"2023-09-21T16:21:01","modified_gmt":"2023-09-21T20:21:01","slug":"the-wedding-set-rings-gap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/the-wedding-set-rings-gap\/","title":{"rendered":"THE WEDDING SET RINGS GAP"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"blog-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jewelry-secrets.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Wedding-Set-Gap.gif\" alt=\"Wedding And Engagement Ring Set Gap\" title=\"Wedding And Engagement Ring Set Gap\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-8333\" \/><\/div>\n<h2>&#8220;I&#8217;ve got a gap!&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>\nLadies bring their wedding sets in for us to look at all the time. <\/p>\n<p>\nAnd there&#8217;s a problem that a good portion of them have:<\/p>\n<p><strong>A gap in their soldered wedding rings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Their wedding rings used to <strong>fit nice and snug<\/strong> together without any spaces or gaps. <\/p>\n<p>\nBut suddenly, their lovely little engagement ring and wedding ring have <strong>opened and pulled apart<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<p>\nNow there&#8217;s a huge ugly gap in between them (and I&#8217;ve seen some<strong> large gaps<\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p>So <strong>what causes this<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>\nThey weren&#8217;t made to fit like that. Especially since they&#8217;ve been <strong>soldered together to fuse them shut.<\/strong> There really should be no reason for that gap to ever exist. But it does, and here&#8217;s the main reason why:<\/p>\n<p><h2>Your rings are soldered only at the bottom.<\/h2>\n<p>\n(<strong>See picture<\/strong>.) <\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Take a look at your rings right now<\/strong>. The place where the jewelers weld your rings together is at the very base of the rings (<strong>the bottom of the shank<\/strong>). Just a little drop of solder is all it takes. That little solder is usually enough to keep your rings safely and snugly held together and to <strong>keep that gap closed forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Do keep in mind that soldering your rings together also makes them <strong>more durable<\/strong> and keeps them from wearing each other down because they don&#8217;t rub up against each other.)<\/p>\n<p><h2>So what causes this gap?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>YOU DO!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nSomehow you caught your rings (or hit them accidentally &#8211; <strong>Snagged them on your sweater<\/strong> &#8211; Something!) and it was enough to pull your rings apart. You may not know you did it, but that&#8217;s the only way it can happen. Your rings were physically knocked and pulled apart (<strong>they weren&#8217;t like that when you bought them<\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p><h2>So what&#8217;s the cure?<\/h2>\n<p>Have the jeweler <strong>separate your two rings<\/strong> again. They&#8217;ll fix the bent rings, realign them back together, and solder them once more so they look brand new again. <strong>That&#8217;s it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>Easy as pie.<\/h2>\n<p><p>Do note that there&#8217;s not much you can do to prevent something like this from happening in the first place. And trying to be careful doesn&#8217;t work because that&#8217;s just how life is. <strong>Things happen.<\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>\nYou bump your rings everyday and that little solder joint at the base of your rings can crack or cause the bands to bend out of shape. The point is, <strong>something&#8217;s going to give.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>Why solder only at the bottom?<\/h2>\n<p>\n<strong>Why do jewelers only solder the rings at the base&#8230;<\/strong> (especially since they know that gap happens?) They only solder at the bottom because<strong> it makes separating them later easier.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>What?<\/h2>\n<p>Yes! If you ever need your bands <strong>separated <\/strong>for whatever reason (say you only want to wear the wedding band now, or you want to <strong>upgrade your engagement ring<\/strong> later, or you just need to get heavier shanks put on them, or <strong>sized<\/strong>&#8230;), all it takes is just a little cut by the jeweler&#8217;s saw blade and your rings are apart. <\/p>\n<p>\nOne little solder joint does no harm to your rings. Jewelers can then work on them &#8211; No problem at all. It&#8217;s easy to file and polish up again and you&#8217;ll never know they were once<strong> joined at the hip.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>See, there is a method to their madness.<\/h2>\n<p>If your rings were soldered all the way around (which you can always ask the jeweler to do &#8211; but I don&#8217;t recommend it), the jewelers would have to cut and file all around, smoothing everywhere, fixing both rings, sides, and shanks just to make them single again. That&#8217;s a lot of work. <\/p>\n<p>\nAnd all that filing and reshaping will probably damage your mounting, thin out your channel walls, weaken your prongs, or <strong>damage your diamonds<\/strong> and gemstones. It may even break down the structure, durability and integrity of your rings (much worse than dealing with just a little gap. &#8211; You don&#8217;t want a frail mounting). <\/p>\n<p><h2>It&#8217;s just not worth it.<\/h2>\n<p>\nThat&#8217;s why you get one small solder at the bottom of your rings.<\/p>\n<p><h2>The jeweler knows best.<\/h2>\n<p>And if you do have a gap&#8230; Whatever you do, <strong>don&#8217;t ignore it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fix it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If the gap is not fixed, you could easily catch it again and rip your rings back. It could tear the mounting and do some <strong>serious damage<\/strong> to your diamonds and gems (I&#8217;ve seen diamonds actually get crushed in the channels). So don&#8217;t let it go. Get it fixed. It&#8217;ll save you a lot of money and headaches in the future.<\/p>\n<p>\nPlus, it can also rip your finger, pinch it, tear it, <strong>break it<\/strong>&#8230; All because your rings got <strong>separated and caught.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><h2>OUCH!<\/h2>\n<p><p>So if for any reason you happen to catch your set and pull the rings apart, <strong>don&#8217;t worry.<\/strong> Take it to the local jewelry store and have the jeweler close that gap. <\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Viola!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\nNo more holes!<\/p>\n<p><h2>Good as new.<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Gap fixed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\n<strong>Cheers! :)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve got a gap!&#8221; Ladies bring their wedding sets in for us to look at all the time. 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